That is a slightly incorrect title but not entirely untrue. This post is all about the pyjama set I really want to get which also gives a whopping £52 to Refuge. Also, this post is not in any way sponsored. I just really want these pyjamas. Hush (home of the luxury pyjama and more) has … Continue reading pyjamas for feminism
Just over five years ago I was excitedly changing my name everywhere. When I got married I decided to take on my husband’s name. It was cool and I had no strong feelings about my maiden name. It was just a name but I found the process of changing names surprisingly confusing. I found myself … Continue reading what is in a name?
Here is an update on where my life is at the end of October 2017: Relationship Status: mentally married to Justin Lazarus the skinny, intelligent, charming and selfish bisexual fake spiritualist from the Sins of the Cities series. Obviously. Financial Status: Getting there. Though would be getting there quicker had I not spent nearly £100 … Continue reading sit rep: October 2017
A while ago I did a twitter thread on this but here it is written up with all the caveats that 140 characters do not allow for, as per on Twitter I have used the words man/him/he for the controller and ‘you’ for the person being controlled. This does not mean I think that this … Continue reading on socialising in controlling relationships
Due to the Weinstein abuse allegation it seems as well as dredging up the myth of the perfect victim a lot of people are trying to make it about politics and saying various Democrats should have known, as if there were no Republicans surprised by Trump’s alleged repeated sexual assaults on women. There are a … Continue reading sometimes people really don’t know
Due to the Weinstein abuse allegations some elements within the media has apparently dredged up the idea of the ‘perfect victim’ so have some thoughts. Please note I am using woman and man/he and she in this as a result of the particular case being discussed at length in the news. If a woman likes … Continue reading the myth of the ‘perfect victim’
I am listening to Rainbow by Kesha probably too much. I find so many of the songs on it healing (including Boogie Feet in case you were wondering) and speak to me in powerful ways. This definitely goes for lead single Praying. I have been in 2.5 controlling relationships and the lyrics for this really … Continue reading ‘Praying’ by Kesha and controlling relationships
When I was about eleven years old I had a dream that I was Indiana Jones. It seems that the world was in peril and a cult group of people in Egypt were making human pyramids of dead bodies as some kind of sacrifice that would bring back an ancient evil. Each person was being … Continue reading on getting the girl
I honestly am not sure I have the words for this video. It is just so good to see boys presented in this way and it makes me so happy. Even if Mac De Marco (<3) licking his guitar neck felt like a step *too* far for me (I have a weird thing against people … Continue reading Boys – Charli XCX
“You’ve not told anyone any of this have you?” So I have sexted, not pictures (well not *only* pictures) but words. Fun words, exciting words, flowing through my fingers and feeling pretty darn good. Words are amazing to me, the power of words, how I might prefer certain words and how they have different impacts. … Continue reading what is so scary about female sexuality?